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Making an                            Paul Dayes, Director of Exit Foundation is himself


                                                 an ex-offender. Paul has made it his life’s passion to
            Exit                                  making the same mistakes that he once made. We
                                                  stop young people from taking the same path and

                                                  caught up with Paul to ask him about his life before
                                                   he found the Lord and how it has changed.

                                                    Paul, what was life like when you were growing up?
                                                    I lived in London up to the age of 10. My only memory is
                                                    my mother leaving when I was six years old, no longer able
                                                     to cope with Dad’s compulsive cheating. He couldn’t care
                                                     for me and my brother. Mum obtained custody of us, and
                                                     we lived with her in Wolverhampton. She was a midwife
                                                      and I used my unsupervised time very negatively, hanging
                                                      with the wrong crowd, getting into all sorts of trouble,
                                                      skipping school and committing crime. At 14 I was caught
                                                       in a stolen car and placed into care. I ran off at the first
                                                       day and became homeless, living on the streets, injecting
                                                       heroin and committing crime to support my drugs use.
                                                        Before faith, what were you searching for in life? How
                                                        did you become involved in crime?
                                                         I was in survival mode. Success was having money;
                                                         survival was being able to support my drugs habit.
                                                         I wanted nice things and to be able to enjoy life.
                                                          My way of obtaining money was by committing
                                                          crime. I knew my behaviour was wrong and there
                                                          were consequences. I went through the entire
                                                           Young Offenders path of ‘Detention Centre’, ‘Borstal’,
                                                           twice.  Aged 19 I was placed into adult prison.
                                                           What was prison like before you encountered
                                                            Christ?
                                                            I knew my way around prison and the system.
                                                            It was never a deterrent otherwise I would not
                                                             have continued to get into trouble. In all honesty
                                                             my being in prison each time saved my life and
                                                              I knew it.

                                                              What was your first encounter with Christ like?
                                                              What part did a GOOD NEWS for Everyone!
                                                               Testament play in your conversion?
                                                               My first encounter with Christ was in a prison
                                                               cell in 2007. My first Bible was a GOOD NEWS
                                                                for Everyone! Testament I found on a radiator
                                                                outside my cell door in Winson Green Prison.
                                                                It didn’t appear to belong to anyone, so I put
                                                                 it in my cell and went off to work in the prison
                                                                 workshop.





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